Clue About Some Men

One thing I learned about some women is once they get comfortable with you they started acting like your mom. He dont need two cause he already got one. GET IT. TREAT HIM LIKE A MAN EVEN IF HE DONT SEEM TO BE SOME TIME. Go cook him something to eat and bring it to him. Do stuff to make him feel "I cant let her go, she too good to me." but if he acting up dont give him none, not right away. Do this if you love him, but at the same time help him cause he needs to grow. He still might be a little boy. If he still think that a dog is mans best friend and not his woman then let them go!

Things Happen for a Reason

I was just reading a poem that I write called Letter to Dad and it made me think about a movie I saw. I dont remember the name or the actors. A guy was on parole talking to a consoler and basically he said what I come to realize. When you look at someone such as an absentee father. You think how messd up he is that he wasnt around. God put everyone one here for a reason. The guy was saying God but bad people on earth like he put good people. Everything that seems bad is not meant for the bad. Its meant to teach you a lesson or guide you in a certain direction. Every bad person and situation like every good person and situation is put into place to guide you to where you need to be.

Not All About You

I can not and will not ever understand people. Why they prefer hate over happiness. Why they prefer to be cut throat over caring. Why they prefer poverty over prosperity. There is a whole lot of eighties out there that believe in God. I say that because many people believe and even goto church but don't know the meaning of god or love. I am not perfect far from it and I will probably alway be a sinner. One thing you can say about me I care about people and want better for everyone. Some times its not all about you.

Positive Black Man

I am kinda bother right now. The reason why is because of the lack of support for the positive black man. Particularly i am speaking on woman right now. Ok the first thing that comes out a womans mouth is "I don't want him he is broke. What can he do for me." My thing is as a woman you need to ask yourself "What have i done to help support my positive black man or any positve man." We complain, but do nothing. If u are not part of the solution u are part of the problem. If u see someone who is trying to do something positive then support them in any way u can. A good woman is a man's foundation.

A Shame

Recently i hit like on a pic of two black young ladies. One was doing the others hair on a bus or train. i seen it in someone's photos i wish i had of reposted. Anyway the funny thing is most of the ppl who commented on it were African American. They all said something about ghetto. One white guy say something like a great way of managing ur time. It toke a white male to see the opportunity in that whole situation and all my fellow African American could see is ghetto. It makes u think. A SHAME!