Relationships are funny

Relationship are a funny thing. We all will have one, two or more in our life span. I have had them. My mother and father has had them. There parents has had them. Some last a day, a week, a month, or even a life time. Some are good. Some are bad. Some are just okay. relationships has been around for centuries, so it should be easy for us meaning you and me to figure out by now right! I mean it makes sense to me. There are people who are married for thiry, forty, or more year and they die together. At the same there has been others that have been married the same amount of time and they get divorced. There has been marriages that only lasted three or four years. The question is why are relationships so hard. Why do some last and others fail. I think in my opinion the answer lies within oneself. I believe that every relationship is different, but there are some constants. Things that are the same no matter what relationship you are in. A person needs to communicate both talk and listen. A person needs to be treated with love and respect. I believe that everyone has a sole mate, but i also believe that you don't have to meet them to be happy in a relationship because most of us never meet them. If you do have a change to meet your sole mate you will never want to let them go. For those of us who never meet our sole mate relationships take work. It is a full time job with double over time. Some work some don't no matter what you do. Thats the breaks kid! Lets break down the word relationship and see where it get us:

re: means redo, relate, revive, remind,retake.(some times a relation gets stale and you have to freshen it up!
rela: means you need to talk/communicate with your partner.
ships: means there are big and little ships meaning relationships. some ships come to dock for a while than they go back out to sea. one ship leaves another comes along. Ships being ships out in the sea are some times caught in storms. Some ship come out of the storm ok others are damaged and are never the same. There are ships that are not ships at all. They are called boats for example sail boats are used for recreation. You know the ones i mean. the ones that are just for kicks. The problem is people can't reconizge a ship from a boat. They become hurt and are never the same. My point is know what you are getting into and when you do work hard as hell to stay into it.

sign piece, luv, and happiness
yours truely Eddie Smith